Rubber Meets the Road:
- Slow Down Your Conversations
- Stop thinking about your response.
- Start focusing on their reality.
- Listen for Patterns, Not Just Words
- What are they:
- Repeating?
- Avoiding?
- Hesitating on?
- That’s where the truth is.
- What are they:
- Ask Better Follow-Up Questions
- Don’t move on too fast.
- Go deeper.
- “Tell me more about that.”
- “Why is that important to you?”
- Pay Attention to Energy Shifts
- When someone:
- Pauses
- Changes tone
- Gets quiet
- Lean in.
- When someone:
- Be More Interested Than Interesting
- This is the shift.
- Stop trying to impress.
- Start trying to understand.
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